Tuesday, May 19, 2009

From my potential mama's birthday to tears of joy...


Guess 'm back again...maybe there is always something to say, my sanguine personality at work...or not. I love talking, more like I love saying it all, no holds barred. I can act too, God knows I can lie (thank God for grace not to though) but I can't pretend 'cos I am who I am...what I am ( of course that changes a lot).

Yesterday was a special day as it was an especially special day for someone very special to someone extremely special to a totally special me...yesterday was her mama's birthday...someone say 'hip hip hip hurray'. When you are real close to a lady, you better get real close to the family...in fact, especially the folks (in my case, the mum), they hold a lot of aces, if not all.

She did not tell me o, we had a little 'grief' over the weekend, but she wanted me to know. She used 'koni koni' to inform me by confirming if it was Monday or Tuesday from her sister (on Sunday)...like she didn't know, bobo. It's a family I really like, forget the fact that I chase she all over the physical as well as spiritual world, night and day. I just like the mechanism of love, trust and stratification that seems to be inherent to them. I must confess I am not the all out family love, butty cum dad and mum person, I think I take after my mum...started hustling early and that tends to make you miss some essential luvvy jovvy in the family.


Anyway, yesterday was the birthday, I am fortunate to be in Lagos and so I go greet, bless and celebrate with her. I, however, did something new...strange and special, only guys are allowed to copycat this and by copyright application to. I got my friends, colleagues and even boss to call and wish her happy birthday...lol. She has never seen nor heard of any of them but they kept on calling as I kept on spreading the gospel. From potential bestmates, friends to ebi and ojulumos they called, she laughed, she was excited...definitely happy. Peeps, I just scored a major point in my drive towards 'i must be ur paddy, ma'...


Great day it was...at least until the informal rough play started with she, we really played and played hard. Outside their house we danced around, can't remember the last time I exhibited that part of me, not for a while. It was mos def luvvy jovvy, at least until I hit the wrong button, went of the hook, brakes failed and then...tears of joy fell from someone's face. I have concluded it was tears of joy because it was described as trying to laugh and cry at the same time, I won't tell you who shed the tears, feel free to play around with your imagination...draw your premises and conclusions, OYO l'ewa!


I felt bad though, real bad, it could have been tears of joy from my POV but it was still tears. I made a confession not to let it happen again, as long as there was some pain, it won't happen again. I won't forget yesterday, ever, the 19th of May, 2009, her mama's birthday, 2 months after her birthday!!


Before I close this brethren, please read the following when you can: Math 5:38-48, Rom 12:17-21 and Gen 50:20-21. You will never have a reason to hold/keep malice, revenge or plot vengeance ever again...I pray...Amen!!!


Remember, all things work together for good...

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