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...that I may know him more...that I may fulfill that 1 purpose...that I may bless a generation!
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Random but true...
Thursday, December 8, 2011
CELEBRATING XMAS THE NIGERIAN CHILDREN’S WAY IN THE ‘90s
Thursday, January 6, 2011
ME Ltd – Inspired for 2011
"I tried to make changes this past year in service to others but it was thrown back in my face by the very people whom I sought to serve."
- that I must live with the choices I make and not get so caught up in the consequences/blessings of those choices that I forget that it was my making.
- That in the grand scheme of things, I am the only person that matters, that I cannot afford to purvey my emotions and my feelings on account of others, that when push comes to shove, “Me Ltd” is eventually what counts.
- Live with the end in mind, love with the end in mind, serve with the end in mind – an end that suits both those whom you serve, love/live for and your very self. There will be dark periods or people who want you to go with them to/through a dark place.
- Make your choices wisely and if you will accede to their wish, then be certain of what lies at the end of that dark place for you.
- Have a plan (not two nor three but one) that you will execute during the year and for which you will reward yourself at the end. I do not mean new-year resolutions. On the contrary, I mean something that is entirely yours to control and adds to your “Me Ltd”.
- Create a place where only you have total control and give no room to anyone else in that place. This will be your venue for private victories and your place for private celebrations.
Monday, June 21, 2010
Where are our intellectuals and our heroes? (By Sabella Ogbobode Abidde)
Friday, January 1, 2010
Closing the GAP...
- Too much trust in myself, over-confidence in some cases
- Wrong association
- Temporary (albeit costly) loss in focus on my spiritual life
- Emotional challenges
- External factors...the environmental push
- A weak will...yes, sometimes I forget to remember my strong personality
- Firstly and most importantly, trust God (not self):
- Improved focus on spiritual development, listen to messages (spiritual and motivational), go to church, get and stay close to a spiritual mentor.
- Deal positively with boredom, do some positive time utilization (e.g., blogging, meditation, reading, e.t.c.)
- If it does not help you be better, get rid of it!
- Do not allow your environment and people to get at you, always draw positives out of situations (Nigeria is not the worst place to be, people are still making things happen here)
- Look into a mirror, stop blaming the next person (be it in your love life, work, family, e.t.c.)
- Focus on the big picture, don't go for the proverbial 'bowl of porridge', it is never worth it on the long run.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Too long a time away...too long!
Friday, June 5, 2009
NIGERIA...some great people, an 'ex' great nation! - Part 2

Sunday, May 31, 2009
Love lost...or found...or wicked, always a song unsung!

Friday, May 29, 2009
NIGERIA...some great people, an 'ex' great nation!

"In my house in Ibadan, I have Three generators (7KVa diesel, one 5KVa petrol and one 2KVa petrol) and Two sources of water (well and borehole)."
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
From my potential mama's birthday to tears of joy...

Yesterday was a special day as it was an especially special day for someone very special to someone extremely special to a totally special me...yesterday was her mama's birthday...someone say 'hip hip hip hurray'. When you are real close to a lady, you better get real close to the family...in fact, especially the folks (in my case, the mum), they hold a lot of aces, if not all.
She did not tell me o, we had a little 'grief' over the weekend, but she wanted me to know. She used 'koni koni' to inform me by confirming if it was Monday or Tuesday from her sister (on Sunday)...like she didn't know, bobo. It's a family I really like, forget the fact that I chase she all over the physical as well as spiritual world, night and day. I just like the mechanism of love, trust and stratification that seems to be inherent to them. I must confess I am not the all out family love, butty cum dad and mum person, I think I take after my mum...started hustling early and that tends to make you miss some essential luvvy jovvy in the family.
Anyway, yesterday was the birthday, I am fortunate to be in Lagos and so I go greet, bless and celebrate with her. I, however, did something new...strange and special, only guys are allowed to copycat this and by copyright application to. I got my friends, colleagues and even boss to call and wish her happy birthday...lol. She has never seen nor heard of any of them but they kept on calling as I kept on spreading the gospel. From potential bestmates, friends to ebi and ojulumos they called, she laughed, she was excited...definitely happy. Peeps, I just scored a major point in my drive towards 'i must be ur paddy, ma'...
Great day it was...at least until the informal rough play started with she, we really played and played hard. Outside their house we danced around, can't remember the last time I exhibited that part of me, not for a while. It was mos def luvvy jovvy, at least until I hit the wrong button, went of the hook, brakes failed and then...tears of joy fell from someone's face. I have concluded it was tears of joy because it was described as trying to laugh and cry at the same time, I won't tell you who shed the tears, feel free to play around with your imagination...draw your premises and conclusions, OYO l'ewa!
I felt bad though, real bad, it could have been tears of joy from my POV but it was still tears. I made a confession not to let it happen again, as long as there was some pain, it won't happen again. I won't forget yesterday, ever, the 19th of May, 2009, her mama's birthday, 2 months after her birthday!!
Before I close this brethren, please read the following when you can: Math 5:38-48, Rom 12:17-21 and Gen 50:20-21. You will never have a reason to hold/keep malice, revenge or plot vengeance ever again...I pray...Amen!!!
Remember, all things work together for good...