Monday, June 21, 2010

Where are our intellectuals and our heroes? (By Sabella Ogbobode Abidde)

Intellectuals and intellectual pursuits are at the heart of most civilizations. In recent times, intellectuals have helped to shape national destinies, illuminate challenges, give pieces of advice to leaders and influence collective thinking. It is generally understood that any society without a bourgeoning class of intellectuals cannot truly flourish. Such a society, it is believed, may stagnate, regress or disintegrate. 


The western world is never short of intellectuals; and neither was Nigeria between the 1950s and 1980s. The west had the likes of Lillian Hellman, Henrik Ibsen, Jean-Jacques Rousseau, Bertolt Brecht, Norman Mailer, James Baldwin, Jean-Paul Sartre, Noam Chomsky and Edmund Wilson. And Nigeria had the likes of Kelsey Harrison, Bala Mohammed Bauchi, Kalu Ezera, Chinua Achebe, Attahiru Jega, Wole Soyinka, Chike Obi, Alele Williams, Tam-David-West, Dipo Fashina, Eskor Toyo, Claude Ake, Kole Omotosho, Ade Ajayi, Tai Solarin, J.P Clark and many others.


Not only were the Nigerian titans gifted; they were rigorous, honest and resolute in their thinking and in their pursuits. They helped shape the nature and direction of the country and our institutions. Their writings and pronouncements influenced the output of policy makers. As brutal and unpredictable as the military establishments were, these titans, to a great extent, helped to keep them in order. 


Today, Nigeria is different. It is almost unfathomable how the nation went from great heights to low ebbs. Dr. Olayiwola Abegunrin, formerly of Obafemi Awolowo University, now a professor at Howard University, posited that the Nigerian military bear some of the responsibilities for ”destroying our institutions…by some of the policies they promulgated and pursued, beginning from the General Yakubu Gowon era.” Some of the policies they pursued, along with the coups and countercoups, helped weaken, and, in some cases, destroy our sense of nation-building and sense of self. 


Many of our national treasures were prosecuted, persecuted, harassed, jailed, or sent into exile; and in some cases, the military simply made life and living miserable and unbearable for them. Civilian administrations also contributed to the malaise. In the end, some of our best and brightest left in search of stability and greener pastures. Gradually, the distasteful and impermissible became permissible and sacred. It became okay to steal. It became acceptable to be a professional sycophant. It became fashionable to be an illiterate in a literate and globalizing world.


According to Mr. Sonala Olumhense, himself a member of the great-generation, ”the flip side of the coin - the ”absence of intellectualism” - is the ”presence of materialism” and the pursuit of the inconsequential. Such pursuits diminish the glory and prosperity of the country. In addition, we honour men and women lacking foresight and brilliance of mind and good character. We look up to, prostrate for and genuflect before men and women with inferior sensibility and dubious character. Great nations or nations of consequence have men and women at the front line of intellectualism and nation building. 


In more recent times, especially since the 1990s, the pool of home-grown intellectuals has greatly diminished; and so also has the pool of genuine heroes. Heroes can be found in all walks of life: men and women with unique achievements in sports, medicine and music; and in various fields, including our classrooms and battlefields. We had men and women who inspired us as children and as teenagers, to strive for the stars. These are people without whom our lives and joy would have been limited, our dreams stunted and our imagination blurred. Without these everyday heroes our lives may have turned out unfulfilled.


Heroes can be ordinary men and women, but with great courage and great strength and with life-altering contribution to mankind and our immediate society. In this instance, I speak of men and women of extraordinary political achievements. I speak of men and women who risked their freedom and their lives in the service of their country. I speak of men and women who answered the call of their people; and, in so doing, sacrificed their lives and desires and comfort so their people might proper and be free from the chains of humiliation, servitude and oppression. Every nation has such men and women.


Jamaica, for instance, speaks of Alexander Bustamante and Norman Manley. The British speak of Winston Churchill; the French remembers Charles de Gaulle; and the Americans remember Lincoln, Washington, Kennedy and others. The Senegalese, the Kenyans and the Ghanaians remember Senghor, Kenyatta and Nkrumah respectively. Africans in general will never forget men like Julius Nyerere and Nelson Mandela. Every country remembers and celebrates their hero - every country but Nigeria! 


Does Nigeria have heroes‘ day, national monuments or burial grounds for our heroes? Nigeria, it seems to me, is the only country that does not revere her extraordinary men and women. In contemporary times at least, we behave as though no man or woman ever sacrificed his or her freedom so future generations could have a better life. This repulsive attitude can be seen in the manner some Nigerians speak of their nationalists. And on the Internet, some Nigerian have developed the penchant for displaying their ingratitude and contempt for the country‘s heroes


Denigrating our heroes has become the pastime for some of these charlatans. But for our nationalists, Nigeria would have suffered the same fate as Mozambique, Angola, Guinea Bissau, Algeria and other countries that underwent untold hardship at the hands of their colonial oppressors. To mention the name Aminu Kano or Obafemi Awololwo is to draw a barrage of invectives and unpalatable adjectives. To mention Nnamdi Azikiwe is to invite scorn and ridicule. To speak of Tafawa Balewa is to open oneself to a barrage of tirade and ethnic slurs. 


Our heroes are humans. As humans, they made their fair share of mistakes. Come to think of it: they lived in a different time – a time of unspeakable brutality; a time when the colonial powers were interested mainly in exploiting the human and natural resources of Nigeria. It was a time when the colonialists engaged in vile survival strategies, a time of divide and rule. With sheer wisdom, intellect, good sense and common sense, our nationalists were able to free our land and our people. They saw to it that we got our lives and our dignity back. Therefore, whatever we are today we owe to a majestic group of men and women who, in spite of all their shortcomings and frailties, helped realize a free Nigeria.


Because Nigeria is what it is – we have no regards for our heroes. And then we wonder why no one wants to lay their life for a country that does not appreciate her heroes. Why we spend so much time abusing our national heroes is beyond me. Why we spend so much time questioning the motives of such men and women is beyond my wits. It is disgraceful, disrespectful and a dishonour to all the men and women who endured years and years and years of indignity at the hands of the British and their local collaborators.


Considering all that our heroes did for us, is this how we repay them? Is this how we honour their memories and all the sacrifices they and their families made on our behalf? We don‘t hear the Americans, the South Africans, the Canadians, the Australians, Germans and the French and others pilling insults on their national heroes, do we? Why should it be any different for Nigerians?


(Sabella Abidde lives in Montgomery, Alabama.)

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Testimonies...So Far, So Good.

In my heart, body and soul, I praise God..always. I start to type this having to choose between so many topics floating through my busy, yet seemingly lazy mind. I am sat in the living room with an unusual headache pounding hard on the innovative side of my brain, the irony is that it is my memory bit that is actually busy with so much having happened during the day/week.

I must confess the last one week has been tough, draining to say the least, emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. I seem to be getting challenges in droves with no visible end in sight. I have, however, chosen to thank God via this medium. This I do, not only because I have a mandate (biblical) to "...in all things, thank God", but because I have every reason to, giving how this year has gone so far.

In one of my earlier blogs, I wrote about plans from last year flowing into this year, about passion and desire for more things that one to happen soon. I planned, worked towards it, and, most importantly, I invested financially and spiritually into my dream and aspirations. I am not talking about stocks and shares, not even about savings and earnings. No, I am referring to contracts with the Almighty, the Alpha and the Omega, about the 'ONE' that fails not.

I attend a bible believing church, I go there for one reason (there are many bible believing churches, yes!), I go there because I enjoy the 'word', the environment as well as the method of teaching. It was there I was introduced to the act of investing with/in God, it was there I signed this contract that is generating more than I bargained for just three months down the line. I truly understand what 'pressed down and shaken together' means. The beauty is the pressing and shaking has only just begun.

I entered the contract unselfishly; i did it on behalf of me, 'her' and my family and friends. I remember my younger sister catching a glimpse of one of my many investments and laughing at me for my gullibility, my mum did same when she heard...LOL. Now, the dividends are coming and spreading, affecting all...who is laughing now?

Early last year, I remember there was a particular ballot in my office for all employees. A colleague and I, then in Ibadan, entered a small meeting room together and prayed that we both won the items involved. Our team members really had a laugh, not only because I was praying over it, but more out of their own lack of faith. Yes, we did not win that year and I moved to Lagos soon after. Now, listen to this, there were two separate but similar ballots earlier this year and I won in Lagos while he won in Ibadan. Did I hear somebody say Halleluyah, or do you say 'coincidence?

This is just one out of the many successes, miraculous escapes (no one was hurt in the accident shown above), provisions and promotions that 'me and mine' have enjoyed and are enjoying at the moment. I could start to list but you did not be able to read it all (and also for privacy reasons :) )

Conclusion; "Test me in this" says the LORD Almighty, "and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it". (Malachi 3:10, NIV). Praise God, He is indeed faithful to do that which He promises.

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

A peep into the future named 2010...taking stock, a conclusion.


What does the year hold for us? Hmm, a huge question, one we all are positive about for more reasons than one. With our aspiration, desires, purpose, plans, family, relationships, careers, businesses, finances...jeez, no one needs a sooth sayer to say "THIS IS MY YEAR AGAIN", we all have that churning round our heads.


I was on Facebook a lot during the yuletide (who has a blackberry and wasn't???...lol), I indeed saw a zillion status updates about the new year. If wishes (resolutions and status updates) were horses, 'all man for ride o', problem is 'IT IS NOT!' No, it goes beyond typing, saying and sharing...a lot more is required, this I have gotten to realize over the years.


I had countlessly seen the dawn of a new year to be a reason (enough) to quit a habit, outgrow an addiction, or more commonly, draw a list of "New Year Resolutions". Truth is, at the end of the day (year), we are who we are, what changes is what we are. We are too busy following the trend, catching up on the norm, flung neck deep in the demands of the society, that we forget what purpose is.


The 'Adam' or 'Eve' of today is born into a world where everything is either fashion, fancy or a façade. It has become a life of evolving tradition, a drive towards compliance rather than true desire. Culture is constantly dragged in the mud, or worse still, thrown away, totally discarded off. Anyways, enough of the deviation and back to the original reason for this type-up, looking into the future (2010) via the past (2009).



I don't have any resolutions, those keep evolving, daily, as it is required (quite flexible). I, however, need and have targets. This is essential for purpose, for reflection, for development, for target setting, for the future. I need to know where I am at any point 'T', it is pertinent that I identify Gaps, fill them, reach (or better still, exceed) targets. I need to be able to measure, calibrate (within and without) and define my standing versus virtual or real destinations.
This year, I am grouping my targets under the following headings:

  1. Spiritual
  2. Financial
  3. Emotional
  4. Career and development
Everything about me lies somewhere within the above, it is from these I will draw my "Objectives, Goals, Strategies to achieve them and Measures to calibrate myself. It is simple yet almost complicated. I have to exceed last years targets on all of the above for a start, grow at a geometric progression in more ways than one and still maintain sanity in this 'abosultely insane' environment. But why not, why can't I, what is stopping me....nothing, only 'me' can do that and i have decided not to.


I pray I don't have to try twice (or more) before getting it right (like in 2009), I hope I get over the errors of the yesteryears without losing my identity. I am who I am afterall, only the what changes. I know I cannot do this alone, NO!!, the grace of God is sufficient for me (and you, if you so choose).


Remember, "Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done". Philippians 4:6 (NLT)


YES I CAN!!!
YES I WILL!!!

Friday, January 1, 2010

Closing the GAP...


Wow, not sure I want to write about this...it's so hard to confess one's opportunity areas, especially if you had 365 days to make up and you still missed out on some things. I guess this one is going to be a very brief one, maybe I'll just discuss/write about personal development, self realization and/or focused improvement...that might make me feel better, at least for now.

I hate to admit it but I try more than once on too many things, loose focus, go back to self defeating habits one too many a time. I am strong willed, have a very strong sense of self belief, but it doesn't work on the little issues of life where its  most needed. As the word of God (and Swtzy) says "...it is not by power nor by might...", another good one can be found in Ecclesiastes 9:11 which reminds us the strong don't always win.

I don't have to meditate all night to know where I failed in 2009, NO!, the focus is why and reasons obvious. Truth is as I type this, I am using the opportunity to reflect about those little challenges I had to try more than once on and why, a lot of things are running thorugh my mind, I will list them down for further reflection, a reality check now, and later, as well as (maybe) help someone somewhere like moi.

So, why did I try more than once so often? This could be attributed (but not limited) to the following:

  1. Too much trust in myself, over-confidence in some cases
  2. Wrong association
  3. Temporary (albeit costly) loss in focus on my spiritual life
  4. Emotional challenges
  5. External factors...the environmental push
  6. A weak will...yes, sometimes I forget to remember my strong personality
So, what are the potential solutions?
  1. Firstly and most importantly, trust God (not self): 
  2. Improved focus on spiritual development, listen to messages (spiritual and motivational), go to church, get and stay close to a spiritual mentor.
  3. Deal positively with boredom, do some positive time utilization (e.g., blogging, meditation, reading, e.t.c.)
  4. If it does not help you be better, get rid of it!
  5. Do not allow your environment and people to get at you, always draw positives out of situations (Nigeria is not the worst place to be, people are still making things happen here)
  6. Look into a mirror, stop blaming the next person (be it in your love life, work, family, e.t.c.)
  7. Focus on the big picture, don't go for the proverbial 'bowl of porridge', it is never worth it on the long run.
I am feeling better and stronger already, praise God, guess it's a great new year after all...

Remember WHO you are and WHAT you want to be, don't give up and do not let anything and/or anyone discourage you. IT IS BETWEEN YOU AND GOD!!!